Wednesday, May 28, 2025

Writing Through the Wounds: How the Psalms Reveal the Power of Written Exposure Therapy



๐ŸŒฟ Introduction – Writing As a Path to Healing

Long before therapists guided clients through trauma with writing exercises, a shepherd-king poured out his soul onto scrolls. That king was David, and his writings—known today as the Psalms—mirror what modern therapists call Written Exposure Therapy (WET). 


WET is a short-term, evidence-based method of healing that invites people to write about a painful experience. The goal isn’t to erase pain—but to process it, integrate it, and step forward in freedom.

For the Christian believer, this concept might feel new—but it’s not unbiblical. In fact, David’s Psalms reflect every stage of this therapeutic journey. He faced his fears, wrote his wounds, and through that process, met the presence of God.


๐Ÿ”น What is Written Exposure Therapy?

WET is a five-session therapeutic model that helps individuals process trauma and distress by writing about a specific painful memory repeatedly over time.

Its power lies in these elements:

  • Facing what hurts instead of avoiding it

  • Naming the emotional and cognitive impact

  • Writing and rewriting to move from chaos to clarity

  • Reclaiming authorship of your story—not just what happened, but how it’s integrated


๐Ÿ”น David, the Psalms, and the Therapy of Writing

David’s psalms are not polished praise pieces—they are often raw, disjointed, emotionally intense outpourings.

Let’s explore how several key Psalms reflect the emotional arc of WET:


๐Ÿ–‹️ WET Session 1: Emotional Exposure

Goal: Begin writing about what happened—honestly and without censoring
Psalm Parallel: Psalm 55
David writes of betrayal, fear, and anxiety:
“My heart is in anguish within me… Fear and trembling have beset me.” (Psalm 55:4-5, NIV)


๐Ÿ–‹️ WET Session 2: Revisit and Expand

Goal: Re-express the event—what stands out now?
Psalm Parallel: Psalm 31
David reflects on past distress, but also begins to speak of trust.
“I am forgotten as though I were dead… But I trust in you, Lord; I say, ‘You are my God.’” (Psalm 31:12,14, NIV)


๐Ÿ–‹️ WET Session 3: Identify Emotions and Impact

Goal: Name what the experience did to your thoughts, identity, and body
Psalm Parallel: Psalm 42
David engages in deep self-reflection:
“Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me?” (Psalm 42:5, NIV)


๐Ÿ–‹️ WET Session 4–5: Integration and Reframing

Goal: Reflect on what was lost—and what still holds true
Psalm Parallel: Psalm 13
From despair to hope in six short verses:
“How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever?” (Psalm 13:1, NIV)
ends with:
“But I trust in your unfailing love…” (Psalm 13:5, NIV)


๐Ÿ”น Writing As Worship. Writing As Witness.

David didn’t write to get published. He wrote to survive. He wrote to pray.
He wrote because it was the one thing that made sense in a world where nothing else did.

And so can we.

“Be still, and know that I am God.”
Psalm 46:10 (NIV)

Stillness doesn’t mean doing nothing. It means pausing long enough to name what’s real—and trust that God is already present in it.


๐Ÿ”น The Power of the Pen in God’s Hands

For believers who have experienced trauma, grief, or overwhelming emotion—writing may become a pathway to healing.

Not a substitute for prayer, but a form of prayer.
Not a replacement for faith, but an act of faith.

“Pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge.”
Psalm 62:8 (NIV)


๐Ÿ™ Closing Reflection

You don’t need to be a king or a poet.
You don’t need to show anyone your pages.
You simply need a willing heart—and ten quiet minutes.

Try it.
Write what you haven’t spoken aloud.
Write as David did: with tears, trust, and truth.

Monday, May 26, 2025

Radical Acceptance and the Will of God: Finding Faith in DBT

๐ŸŒฟ Introduction: Where Faith and Therapy Meet

For many believers, the thought of stepping into therapy can feel like stepping into unfamiliar territory—especially when it comes to therapies like Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). One of its most well-known principles, radical acceptance, may even sound at odds with faith.

But what if it isn’t? What if radical acceptance is actually an invitation to trust God more deeply?


๐Ÿ”น Holding Two Truths: Grace and Change

DBT teaches clients to hold seemingly opposing truths in tension. For example:

  • I am doing the best I can, and

  • I need to do better, try harder, or be more motivated. 

This mirrors a core tension of Christian living: we are fully accepted by grace, and yet called to grow in holiness. It is in this tension that God often does His deepest work.


๐Ÿ”น Radical Acceptance: A Mirror of Biblical Surrender

Radical acceptance in DBT isn’t about giving up. It’s about acknowledging reality as it is, so we can respond with wisdom rather than resistance.

This sounds very much like what Jesus modeled in the Garden of Gethsemane:

“Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.”
Luke 22:42 (NIV)

Jesus didn’t deny His pain. He acknowledged it—and surrendered to the will of the Father. That is radical acceptance in its purest form.


๐Ÿ”น “It Is What It Is” — and God Is Still There

DBT often uses the phrase “it is what it is” to reinforce radical acceptance. It’s not fatalistic—it’s freeing.

So is Psalm 46:10, which calls us to this:

“Be still, and know that I am God.”
Psalm 46:10 (NIV)

Being still does not mean doing nothing. It means recognizing what is real, laying it before God, and remembering that He is sovereign—even over the pain we can’t change.


๐Ÿ”น When the Brokenhearted Sit in the Chair

DBT acknowledges pain honestly. It gives clients tools for distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and mindfulness. None of these things contradict Scripture. In fact, they echo it.

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

In every counseling session where a believer wrestles with trauma, shame, or anxiety—God is near. Therapy is not a detour from discipleship. It can be part of the path.


๐Ÿ”น A Word from Marsha Linehan

Dr. Marsha Linehan, the creator of DBT, has spoken publicly about her Christian faith and the role it played in her own healing. In a 2011 interview, she shared:

“I decided to be a nun when I was in the hospital, and I made a vow to God that I would get out of hell and help others get out of hell, too.”
—Marsha Linehan, New York Times Interview

Her therapy model was born not from secularism, but from suffering, silence, and spiritual surrender.


๐Ÿ™ Closing Reflection

Radical acceptance doesn’t mean abandoning hope. It means facing life as it is, not as we wish it to be—and trusting that God will meet us there.

You’re not weak for needing help. You’re not unfaithful for seeking therapy. You are human. And God is not far from the wounded places.

๐Ÿ“– Closing Scripture

“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV)

๐Ÿ™Œ Final Word

You can embrace healing without abandoning faith.
You can accept reality without giving up hope.

You can sit in a therapist’s chair—and still walk in the presence of God. 

Tuesday, May 20, 2025

Capturing Every Thought: Biblical Truth and the Blessing of CBT


By Alex Moghadam | Counselling with Conviction

๐Ÿง  Introduction
In today’s world, where stress, fear, and emotional struggles seem more prevalent, many are searching for tools to bring clarity and peace to the inner life. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is one such tool. It is widely respected in mental health for its effectiveness in helping people change harmful patterns of thinking. What may surprise some is how deeply this approach aligns with biblical truth—specifically with the words of the Apostle Paul:

We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”
2 Corinthians 10:5 (NIV)

The battle truly begins in the mind. CBT and Scripture both affirm this truth—and both offer a path toward healing and renewal.


๐Ÿงฉ What is CBT?
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is based on the idea that our thoughts influence our emotions, which then affect our behaviors. If we can learn to recognize and challenge distorted or unhelpful thoughts, we can experience real change—not just in our actions, but in our emotional and spiritual well-being.

Unlike therapies that focus heavily on the past, CBT equips individuals to focus on the present and take practical steps toward mental and emotional health. At its core, it is a method of intentionally identifying unhealthy thought patterns and replacing them with truth.


✝️ Scripture Supports This Framework
Long before modern psychology identified the power of thought, Scripture had already spoken to its importance. In 2 Corinthians 10:3–5, Paul speaks of a spiritual battle—not one fought with worldly weapons, but with divine power:

For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds.”
2 Corinthians 10:3–4 (NIV)

Paul understood what CBT now confirms: destructive patterns—whether emotional, spiritual, or behavioral—begin in the mind. By taking “every thought captive,” we align our thinking with God’s truth and begin to demolish strongholds like fear, shame, or bitterness.


๐Ÿ”„ The Spiritual Practice of Mind Renewal
Another powerful verse that echoes this concept is Romans 12:2:

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Romans 12:2 (NIV)

Renewing the mind is not a one-time event—it is a daily, intentional practice. CBT provides practical steps for this process, while Scripture offers the spiritual foundation. Together, they equip us to reject lies and cling to truth.

For believers, CBT becomes more than just therapy—it becomes a spiritual discipline. With prayer, Scripture, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit, we can transform toxic thinking into life-giving truth.


๐Ÿ“ Practical Application: A Simple CBT Exercise
One of the foundational tools in CBT is called thought journaling. Here’s how it works:

Identify the Triggering Event: What happened that stirred up negative feelings?
Notice the Automatic Thought: What immediately went through your mind?
Evaluate the Thought: Is it true? Is it helpful?
Reframe It with Truth: What does God’s Word say instead?

Example:
Event: You made a mistake at work.
Automatic Thought:I’m such a failure.”
Evaluation: That’s harsh and not entirely true.
Biblical Reframe: Though I stumble, I will not fall, for the Lord upholds me with His hand.” (Psalm 37:24, NIV) 

Over time, this practice of capturing and reframing thoughts can lead to lasting change in how we see ourselves and the world around us.


๐Ÿ’ฌ Closing Thoughts
CBT is more than just a therapeutic method—it is a blessing, especially when rooted in biblical truth. Scripture invites us into the daily work of renewing our minds, taking thoughts captive, and replacing lies with truth.

If you’re battling anxiety, shame, or inner turmoil, know this: God cares deeply about your thought life. And He has provided both spiritual guidance and practical tools to help you find freedom.

May you walk in the hope and healing that comes from a renewed mind—and may you experience the deep blessing of capturing every thought in obedience to Christ.

Thursday, May 15, 2025

Faith and Therapy: Where God’s Grace Meets Evidence-Based Healing


Many
believers deeply love God but quietly struggle with the idea of entering therapy. They may ask:

Does seeking counseling mean I don’t have enough faith? Am I relying on the world instead of the Word?”

But what if therapy isn’t a rejection of your faith—but a tool that God can use for your healing?

As someone grounded in Scripture and shaped by both seminary and counseling ministry, I want to affirm this truth:

Evidence-based mental health therapy is not opposed to the Gospel—it may very well be part of God’s provision for your healing.


๐Ÿง  Therapy Is Not a Replacement for Faith—It Can Be a Companion

Throughout Scripture, we see God working through human vessels to accomplish divine purposes:

  • He heals through physicians

  • Provides through farmers and workers

  • Protects through community and leaders

So why not also heal hearts and renew minds through trained, compassionate counselors?

For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers.”
Proverbs 11:14 (NIV)


๐Ÿงช Evidence-Based Therapy Is Wisdom in Action

CBT, EMDR, DBT, and other clinical modalities aren’t belief systems—they’re tools. They use what we’ve learned about the brain, trauma, and behavior to bring relief, clarity, and healing.

This isn’t contrary to God. In fact, it’s a reflection of His creative wisdom.

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights…”
James 1:17 (NIV)

If a therapeutic method has been tested, refined, and shown to reduce harm, restore function, and rebuild dignity—is that not a good gift?


✝️ God’s Presence in the Process

God is not limited to pulpits and pews. He shows up in hospital rooms, quiet offices, and even virtual therapy sessions.

  • When a trauma survivor finds language for their pain—God is there.

  • When shame begins to unravel—God is there.

  • When identity is rebuilt on something more solid than failure—God is there.

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Romans 12:2a (NIV)

Yes, that renewing can happen through prayer and Scripture. But it can also come as the Holy Spirit works through memory work, reframing techniques, and a counselor’s listening ear.


๐Ÿ•Š️ Therapy Can Strengthen Your Faith

Many people come to therapy thinking they’re setting faith aside—only to discover that healing frees them to trust God more deeply, not less.

When anxiety calms, faith becomes clearer.
When trauma is processed, Scripture becomes personal.
When shame lifts, worship becomes heartfelt again.

Therapy doesn’t erase your faith—it can restore it. 


๐Ÿ’ก Final Encouragement

If you're a Christian considering therapy, hear this clearly:

  • You’re not betraying God.

  • You’re not weak.

  • You are seeking healing in a way that honors the wisdom and mercy of your Creator.

You’re stepping into a space where God can meet you in new ways—ways that are both clinical and spiritual.


๐Ÿ™ A Prayer

Lord, if You are the God who heals, then I trust You can heal through any means You choose—including therapy.
Help me lay down fear, pride, or confusion.
Lead me to the right help.
And remind me that You are always with me—even in the therapist’s chair.
In the Name of Jesus I pary, Amen.


๐Ÿ“– Closing Scripture

He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
Psalm 147:3 (NIV)